A Pause That Refreshed

Driving out of town recently, we discovered another family was using the same road.

While driving out of town recently, we stopped in the middle of a busy road to let a family of geese have the right of way. We were not alone on that road. Several cars were behind us. I don’t know how this cross traffic affected those behind us, but it became a welcome interruption for us.

My initial reaction was, “oh, no,” calculating the anticipated delay, but my impatience quickly changed to fascination, mesmerized by the little family waddling across the road.  Mother goose used her beak to move the stragglers along as if she were conscious that they were holding up traffic. The stately papa goose was ready to do whatever was needed to help his family arrive safely on the other side.  We worried as one gosling struggled dangerously at the edge of the road, and a couple others contended with the curb. Papa goose came to the rescue and gave them the lift they needed with his beak. These parents were not about to leave any family member behind. They waited patiently until everyone made it over the curb and onto the grass on the other side before they moved on.

Why did this feathered family capture our hearts and alter our reactions?

It was a refreshing reminder that embedded in all God’s creation is an inherent need to love and care for others. Living as we do these days, with an overload of personal attacks, counter-attacks, violence, disrespect, even disregard for others, that little family of geese showed us how it should be. We should do everything we can to see that people we know and love get safely to where they need to be. Even a goose knows that!

They also captured our hearts and altered our reactions, because they made us stop and pay attention to what was happening at that moment. We are plagued with distractions that almost constantly divide our attention. Realizing this, a great deal is being written today on the importance of mindfulness – focusing our attention on what is happening in the present moment. Whether talking with our spouse, a daughter, son, friend or grandchild, watching a sunset or taking in the majesty of a thunderstorm, life is enriched when we focus our attention on that moment. Not wanting to run over nine geese on the way out of town, forced me to stop and pay attention to what was happening right in front of me. Not only was I blessed watching that little family swagger across the busy road, I was also reminded to be more mindful at other times.

My dad told me more times that I can remember, “Take time to smell the roses.” Paused on that road that morning, we smelled the roses, we saw something we would have otherwise missed.

I saw this unreferenced quote today in keeping with this theme: “Always find time for the things that make you feel happy and alive.” How many happy, alive feelings have we forfeited because we busily ran over what was right in front of us?

What we do with the readily available opportunities to pause, greatly affects whether we have experiences of inhaling grace and exhaling gratitude. It can deeply impact our experiences with God too.  Ponder these words from Psalm 46:10, “Step out of the traffic! Take a long, loving look at me, your High God, above politics, above everything” (The Message).

Maybe you’d like to pray Psalm 51:10 with me, “God make a fresh start in me, shape a Genesis week from the chaos of my life” (The Message).

By the way, they made it to the other side. . . .

 

Author: Randy J. Gauger

Christ-follower, husband of Mary for 52 years, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, writer, preacher, ordained American Baptist Pastor, retired.

2 thoughts on “A Pause That Refreshed”

  1. I love this, Pastor Randy. I love spring because of all the new babies that arrive in nature. One of my favorite sights are fluffy, little geese with their mom and dad. What a great analogy. I will remember this as I look for fluffy friends this spring.

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  2. I am a friend of Christy’s, and I’m so glad she shared this! It was exactly what I needed to read… and such a great reminder to not pass up the blessings of God for the hustle of this world. Thank you!

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